The First Lessons for a Martial Artist

First experiences create deep impressions in us. Sometimes it's hard to get to a primacy experience as we can bring our past experiences forward, but more often than not, we often remember our firsts and they shape us in deep and meaningful ways.

I've often wondered what I would tell myself as a beginning student. What would be the first thing I'd like myself to know. Sometime I think I would try and wow myself, make an impression based on skill.  That way I'd be motivated to get better. Sometimes it's something esoteric to keep me chasing deeper truths. More often then not I return to: Dojo Etiquette, Cardinal directions, and the Salutation.

It's one of those things where I'm not really sure I would've listened to myself.  No real punching and kicking at this point.  Wrestling. Forms, even free flow or play. Still, it's one of those things where if you do, at some point, you'll find yourself in some interesting country. Here are the lessons:

Dojo Etiquette

When you come in, hang up your problems at the door. You don't need to bring them with you. Dive into the class and if you'd want, you can always pick them back up on your way out.  

When you step into the dojo, acknowledge the instructor, your peers, the ancestors. It's a reminder that you are in good company. 

Cardinal Directions

The first lesson. Be oriented to what is in front of you and be able to move in any direction.

Salutation

A form of the entirety, a moment of gratitude, and a chance put your stuff away.

I trained at a place called the Little Dojo. It is a four and a half hour commute for me to get to. Over the years I learned that I am my own dojo. These practices help to make a dojo of ourselves and from there we find infinity.